Get out of your house in the middle of a rainstorm, get soaked in it, and then strip down-to nothing but a smile.

Try to dwell on the people you'd like to love, instead of all the people you do loathe.

Ageism is the racism of the gay world. We really believe that age-and all of our fears that it carries-will "rub off" on us, the way that racists once believed blackness would.

Don't waste your love on stupid people. Anyone stupid enough to deny or reject it-in the midst of the Love Depression we're in-does not deserve it.

Get out of your house in the middle of a rainstorm, get soaked in it, and then strip down-to nothing but a smile.

Realize that the banality around us that passes as "hipness" or "mass culture" is as satisfying as "mass food"-only it comes in much more unappetizing portions.

The lowest form of barbarism is smugly to berate someone for extending an act of kindness.