Ageism is the racism of the gay world. We really believe that age-and all of our fears that it carries-will "rub off" on us, the way that racists once believed blackness would.

Don't waste your love on stupid people. Anyone stupid enough to deny or reject it-in the midst of the Love Depression we're in-does not deserve it.

To extend oneself does not necessarily mean to have an erection.

Have hot, wild sex with a friend. Then go out and do something stupid, like bowl, afterwards.

Oscar Wilde said that the gods punish us in two ways: first, they don't give us what we want, then, they do. He forgot the third way: we finally see the cost of getting it.

Falling in love with another man is like falling into a vast vat of yourself. For some men this is ultimately nourishing, for others . . . it is drowning.

Get out of your house in the middle of a rainstorm, get soaked in it, and then strip down-to nothing but a smile.