Pain is the price you pay for resisting life.
You do not HAVE to be angry just because you have the right to be angry.
I think you're running into a lot of trouble if your idea of foreplay is, 'Brace yourself honey, here I come!'
My dad used to say, 'You wouldn't worry so much about what people thought about you if you knew how seldom they did.
You need to face the pain and the fear and walk through the Grief.
There is power in forgiveness.