The pleasure isn't in owning the person. The pleasure is this. Having another contender in the room with you.
Philip RothWorld War III will be triggered off not by suppressed nationalists seeking political independence, as happened the first time around when the Serbs at Sarajevo shot the heir to the Austrian throne, but by some semiliterate, whacked-out "loner" who lobs a rocket into a nuclear arsenal in order to impress Brooke Shields.
Philip Roth