Beginning a new habit, or ending an old one can feel like letting go of a rope that swings a mile above the ground. So we feel reluctant to let go, after all, we've survived so far doing what we've done, why risk it.
Philippa PerryPeople tend to slip up and go along the old road before they realise what they've done and climb out of it again.
Philippa PerryWe need to look at the repetitions in the stories we tell ourselves [and] at the process of the stories rather than merely their surface content. Then we can begin to experiment with changing the filter through which we look at the world, start to edit the story and thus regain flexibility where we have been getting stuck
Philippa PerryIf we think of our brains as a map, those early roads are like grooves, tram tracks, easy to fall into.
Philippa Perry