If someone in my family is getting emotionally bent out of shape, I've had to learn to adapt.
Phillip LopateUntil people see poetry as springing from all of life, they will isolate it in a creativity corner and treat it like a mascot.
Phillip LopateMost good essays are conversations with yourself - not just your decided thoughts but your dilemmas.
Phillip LopateDomesticity has been a challenge for me but painful as it's been, engaging with family has been a school for reducing solipsism and increasing my understanding of people's different reactions to stress.
Phillip Lopate