My feelings for Ellen overrode all of my fear about being out as a lesbian. I had to be with her, and I just figured I'd deal with the other stuff later.

Normal" isn't an adjective you wish to hear after putting that much effort into making sure it was spectacular.

I've had so many interviews where the last question is, Are you gay? I had to find very creative ways to say that I was gay, but that I wasn't going to talk about it.

My feelings for Ellen overrode all of my fear about being out as a lesbian. I had to be with her, and I just figured I'd deal with the other stuff later.

I try to be feminine, yet intellectual and smart at the same time. You don't see enough of that.

True nobility isn't about being better than anyone else; it's about being better than you used to be.

I justified it in so many ways. I had a very, very long and difficult struggle with my sexuality.