If your self-esteem really does depend on how you look you're always going to be insecure. There's no way you can get around it because you are going to age. Even if you get that perfect body you're going to get older and older and older. You can't avid it. So you have to somehow, at some point, take control and sift the focus and decide who you are, what you can contribute to the world, what you do and say, is so much more important than how you look.

In high school I had sex with girls quite a few times. They were straight women who I convinced to jump in the sack with me.

I'm really attracted to strong women. Let me rephrase that, I'm really attracted to strong female characters.

I married him for a green card. We had a really great, caring relationship; it just obviously wasn't right for me.

People might find me attractive, but it's also my job to prove that I can be intelligent.

I stumbled into acting and just loved it. I deferred law school - and I'm still deferred.

I knew I wasn't attractive, and I was very happy about that. I didn't want to be attractive. I didn't want to attract. As long as no one wanted to be let in, I didn't have to shut anyone out.