The great difficulty is that you cannot be nice. If you want to take back the power, you have to behave in ways that are not conforming and will not be about pleasing other people.
Rachel HolmesFor me the fascination with biography is the life of the individual in the context of history.
Rachel HolmesMany of us have had that experience of being in love with someone and then they end up being your enemy and there's a stranger in your bed.
Rachel HolmesOne of the key things about the entitlement and power of patriarchy, but also within feminism, is not that it's wilful nastiness. But you can't ask for permission. You can negotiate and you can bring people on board and you can build a base but you can't expect for it to be given.
Rachel Holmes