Ours is not a culture that respects the sick, the old or the vulnerable. We strive for independence, competence, and mastery. In embracing such 'frontier' values, we may become intolerant of human wholeness, contemptuous of anything in ourselves, and in others, that has needs or is capable of suffering. The denial of a vulnerability is the ultimate barrier to compassion.
Rachel Naomi RemenLife is known only by those who have found a way to be comfortable with change and the unknown. Given the nature of life, there may be no security, but only adventure.
Rachel Naomi RemenIt has been my experience that presence is a more powerful catalyst for change than analysis.
Rachel Naomi RemenThe way towards freedom from a situation often lies in acceptance of the situation.
Rachel Naomi RemenWhen you listen generously to people they can hear the truth in themselves, often for the first time.
Rachel Naomi RemenTo seek approval is to have no resting place, no sanctuary. Like all judgement, approval encourages a constant striving. It makes us uncertain of who we are and of our true value. Approval cannot be trusted. It can be withdrawn at any time no matter what our track record has been. It is as nourishing of real growth as cotton candy. Yet many of us spend our lives pursuing it.
Rachel Naomi Remen