Love has these three stages, and compassion accordingly has three stages, and both can exist in different combinations.
RajneeshReal health has to happen somewhere inside you, in your subjectivity, in your consciousness, because consciousness knows no birth, no death. It is eternal. To be healthy in consciousness means: first, to be awake; second, to be harmonious; third, to be ecstatic; and fourth, to be compassionate.
RajneeshDon't be serious about seriousness. Laugh about it, be a little foolish. Don't condemn foolishness; it has its own beauties.
RajneeshThe ordinary man is living a very abnormal life, because his values are upside down. Money is more important than meditation; logic is more important than love; mind is more important than heart; power over others is more important than power over one's own being. Mundane things are more important than finding some treasures which death cannot destroy.
Rajneesh