There is no need of any competition with anybody. U R yourself, and as U R, U R perfectly good. Accept urself

If he loves, he wants to make a relationship out of it immediately! He wants to get married. He wants to create a certain conditioning. He wants to make it a contract. Or he enters a church, or he enters a political party, or he enters into any club and he wants to be structured, he wants to know where he stands in the hierarchy, in what relationship. He wants to have an identity - that 'I am this.' He does not want to remain uncertain. And life is uncertain. Only death is certain.

Love says respect the other as an end unto himself or herself; never use the other as a means. Nobody is a means for you, everybody is an end. But then ambition will flop, and our whole educational system depends on ambitiousness, our politics depends on ambition, our religions depend on ambition.

If you remain always far, love will die. If you remain always near, love will die. Love can survive only in a continuous flowing relationship.

Nobody can teach you love. Love you have to find yourself, within your being, by raising your consciousness to higher levels.

Bring everything up to the surface. Accept your humanity, your animality. Whatsoever is there, accept it without any condemnation. Acceptance is transformation, because through acceptance awareness becomes possible.

Your honesty, Your love, Your compassion should come from your inner being, not from teachings and scriptures.