Anger will come and go and the watcher abides. Sadness comes and passes by and the witness remains
RajneeshThis is what meditation is all about, just becoming a watcher. Failure comes, success comes, you are praised, you are condemned, you are respected, you are insulted - all kinds of things come, they are all dualities. And you go on watching. Watching the duality, a third force arises in you; a third dimension arises in you. The duality means two dimensions: one dimension is happiness; another is unhappiness. Watching both, a depth arises in you: the third dimension, witnessing, sakshin.
RajneeshYou go on reacting to the image not to the person, and hence there is no relationship. When there is no image, then there is relationship.
RajneeshRelationship is a mirror.. Every moment the other reveals you, exposes you. The closer the relationship, the clearer is the mirror.
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