What is discipline? Discipline means creating an order within you. As you are, you are a chaos.
RajneeshLove is just like a breeze: it comes, but you should not close your doors to keep the breeze inside.
RajneeshFirst meditate, be blissful, then much love will happen of its own accord. Then being with others is beautiful and being alone is also beautiful. Then it is simple, too. You dont depend on others and you dont make others dependent on you.
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