Don't seek, don't search, don't ask, don't knock, don't demand - relax.

It's not a question of learning much.On the contrary.It's a question of UNLEARNING much.' Osho

Zen says: be empty. Look without any idea. Look into the nature of things but with no idea, with no prejudice, with no presupposition.

Be - don't try to become. Being is enlightenment, becoming is ignorance.

First meditate, be blissful, then much love will happen of its own accord. Then being with others is beautiful and being alone is also beautiful. Then it is simple, too. You dont depend on others and you dont make others dependent on you.

Fear comes from the mind, love comes from your heart; listen to the heart.

If you don't take the lamp of awareness with you, you are going to create a hell around you. Light your lamp wherever you gocourting, not courting, that is not the point. Wherever you go, whatsoever you do, always do it in the inner light, with awareness.