What is discipline? Discipline means creating an order within you. As you are, you are a chaos.
RajneeshAs long as the "I" is there, love cannot be. All that we call love is only desire, longing, passion and attachment; as long as ego is there, all these bind one.
RajneeshEverything can become a meditation if you live it totally and intensely. And then your life becomes whole.
RajneeshYour question makes it clear that you have not understood what I mean when I say, 'Don't surrender to a person, surrender to love.' And love is never a relationship; this is your problem. Relationship is bound to be a bondage. In relationship either you have to surrender or the other has to surrender.
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