Misery nourishes your ego - that's why you see so many miserable people in the world. The basic, central point is the ego.
RajneeshFriendship is the purest love. It is the highest form of Love where nothing is asked for, no condition, where one simply enjoys giving.
RajneeshI have never said that love is destroyed by marriage. How can marriage destroy love? Yes, it is destroyed in marriage, but it is destroyed by you, not by marriage. It is destroyed by the partners. How can marriage destroy love? It is you who destroy it, because you don't know what love is. You simply pretend to know, you simply hope that you know, you dream that you know, but you don't know what love is. Love has to be learned; it is the greatest art there is.
RajneeshIf you remain always far, love will die. If you remain always near, love will die. Love can survive only in a continuous flowing relationship.
RajneeshDo you know that the words meditation and medicine come from the same root? Meditation is a kind of medicine; its use is only for the time being. Once you have learned the quality, then you need not do any particular meditation, then the meditation has to spread all over your life. Only when you are meditative twenty-four hours a day then can you attain, then you have attained. Even sleeping is meditation.
Rajneesh