A really wise man is feminine, receptive, passive. That's why Buddha looks so feminine. That quality of passiveness, that quality of receptivity... He is just a receptacle. He reflects life: he allows life to reflect in him, to be reflected through him. He sings the song that existence wants to sing through him. He has no ideas of his own; he does not hinder.
RajneeshAccept yourself as you are. And that is the most difficult thing in the world, because it goes against your training, education, your culture.
Rajneesh