Love is authentic only when it gives freedom. Love is true only when it respects the other person's individuality, his privacy.
RajneeshIf you have desires, try to look - are those desires the cause of your misery? Nobody wants misery, but nobody is willing to drop the desires - and they are together, they cannot be separated. This is one of the greatest insights that has come from all the enlightened people in the world - that desire is the root of all misery, and desirelessness is the cause of all that is beautiful and blissful.
Rajneesh