For everything you have missed, you have gained something else, and for everything you gain, you lose something else.
Ralph Waldo EmersonAs men get on in life, they acquire a love for sincerity, and somewhat less solicitude to be lulled or amused. In the progress ofthe character, there is an increasing faith in the moral sentiment, and a decreasing faith in propositions.
Ralph Waldo EmersonDefect in manners is usually the defect of fine perceptions. Elegance comes of no breeding, but of birth.
Ralph Waldo Emerson