Each person tells you who they think they are, and who they think you are.
I think the game is to bear the unbearable with a giggle. With your heart breaking. And then do what you do.
A being whose awareness is totally free, who does not cling to anything, is liberated.
I've firmly come to the conclusion that there are no 'themes' for me anymore. I can't be told who to hate, who to fight, who to subdue - I only see an 'us' in my heart.
Resting in Awareness, we transform all the 'stuff' of our lives.
If you want to see how enlightened you are, go spend a week with your family.