When you know how to listen everyone is the guru
Suffering brings your heart to bear. It gets you where you are!
Learn to watch your drama unfold while at the same time knowing you are more than your drama.
So your first job is to work on yourself. The greatest thing you can do for another human being is to get your own house in order and find your true spiritual heart.
It's all real and it's all illusory: that's Awareness!
We reap in age what we have sown, in our values, all along the way.