There are no accidents whatsoever in the universe.
If you want to see how enlightened you are, go spend a week with your family.
The gift you offer another person is just your being.
You must come to see every human being Including yourself, As an incarnation In a body or personality, going through a certain Life experience which is functional.
Don't take yourself so personally.
Counseling has to do with intuition, with work on oneself, with the quietness of one's mind and the openness of one's heart.