One cannot spend one's entire life running into bathrooms when danger calls!
A novel is a tricky thing to map.
I suddenly had an idea of how adults can hold on to a feeling for very long periods of time, long after the event is finished, long after cards have been sent and apologies made and everyone else had moved on. Adults were pack rats of old, useless emotions
A text is evolutionary by its very nature.
Part of being a writer is knowing when what you write is really bad.
I had trouble listening to adults who didn't really mean anything that they said; it was as if their language poured into my ears only to drain right out a little spigot in the back of my head.