God comes to us disguised as our life.

In terms of soul work, we dare not get rid of the pain before we have learned what it has to teach us.

The most amazing fact about Jesus, unlike almost any other religious founder, is that he found God in disorder and imperfection—and told us that we must do the same or we would never be content on this earth.

You create your response to reality, and that response, for all practical purposes, is your reality.

If you do not transform your wounds you will transmit them.

Heartbreaks, disappointments and even our own weaknesses can serve as stepping-stones to the second half of life transformation. Failings are the foundation for growth. Those who have fallen, failed or 'gone down' are the only ones who understand 'up.'

Men must learn how to grieve, or they are inevitably angry or controlling, and they don't even know why.