Resentment always hurts you more than it does the person you resent. While your offender has probably forgotten the offense and gone on with life, you continue to stew in your pain, perpetuating the past. Listen: those who hurt you in the past cannot continue to hurt you now unless you hold on to the pain through resentment. Your past is past! Nothing will change it. You are only hurting yourself with your bitterness. For your own sake, learn from it, and then let it go.
Rick WarrenGod hates loneliness, and community is God's answer to loneliness. When we walk alongside other people, we find a community where we learn how to love.
Rick WarrenWhat happens outwardly in your life is not as important as what happens inside you. Your circumstances are temporary, but your character will last forever.
Rick WarrenPretentiousness repels but authenticity attracts, and vulnerability is the pathway to intimacy.
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