That's the big difference between Christianity and other religions. The difference between Works and Grace or Do and Done.

Instead of focusing on that unappeasable person, refocus on Jesus, who accepts you unconditionally.

God made every one of us a sexual being, and that is good. Attraction and arousal are the natural, spontaneous, God-given responses to physical beauty, while lust is a deliberate act of the will.

You were made by God and for God, and until you understand that, life will never make sense.

The purpose of influence is to "speak up for those who have no influence." (Pr.31:8) It's not about you.

You can keep your own religion - Buddhism, Islam, Hinduism, Mormonism - you just need to add Jesus to the equation. Then you become complete. You become a Buddhist with Jesus, a Hindu with Jesus, a Muslim with Jesus and so on. You can throw out the term Christianity and still be a follower of Jesus. In fact, you can throw out the term Christian too. In some countries, you could be persecuted for calling yourself a Christian, and there is no need for that. Just ask Jesus into your heart, you don't have to identify yourself as a Christian.

There's much you can't change, but there's something important you can change: you.