We can only receive what our minds are capable of accepting.
Getting what you want will not change your life at the Being Level, so don't let what you have determine 'who you are', otherwise you will always feel dissatisfied.
If you don't do the choosing, life will choose for you, and it may not be the choice you want.
We insist that society should conform to our own subjective illusion of reality.
The biggest risk in life is not risking.
The one who loves least controls the relationship.