If I had it to do again, I would less often judge myself and more often ask for a jury.
Do what you must, And your friends will adjust.
Perhaps we are given a mom that we might take into death the memory of a lullaby.
While I find that I can keep my nose out of other people's business, I do have a curiosity as to their non-business activities.
Retirement is having nothing to do and someone always keeping you from it.
If you don't decide what your life is about, it defaults to what you spend your days doing.