If you can't forgive and forget, pick one.
There is a language of love, which is to say, a truth that does not tell all and a lie that does not deceive.
Do not call any work menial until you have watched a proud person do it.
As to the Seven Deadly Sins, I deplore Pride, Wrath, Lust, Envy and Greed. Gluttony and Sloth I pretty much plan my day around.
Though you lose all hope, there is still hope, and it loves to surprise.
As a gardener, I'm among those who believe that much of the evidence of God's existence has been planted.