There is a group of people who know very well where the weapons of automatic influence lie and employ them regularly and expertly to get what they want. They go from social encounter to social encounter requesting others to comply with their wishes; their frequency of success is dazzling.
Robert CialdiniThe obligation to receive reduces our ability to choose whom we wish to be indebted to and puts that power in the hands of others.
Robert CialdiniThe factor that frequently determines whether people are going to make a particular choice is not the factor that counsels wisely or the one that leads to the greatest economic benefit. It's the one that's top of the consciousness in the moment.
Robert CialdiniPre-suasion is the practice of getting people sympathetic to your message before they experience it.
Robert Cialdini