Freud was way off base in considering sex the fundamental motivation. The ruling passion in men is minding each other's business.
Robert FrostThere is the fear that we shan't prove worthy in the eyes of someone who knows us at least as well as we know ourselves. That is the fear of God. And there is the fear of Man -fear that men won't understand us and we shall be cut of from them.
Robert FrostWhat you want, what you're hanging around in the world waiting for, is for something to occur to you.
Robert Frost