You should never be ashamed of the suffering you've been through.

Everyone has the same life purpose, which is the quest of happiness for oneself and for others.

I think humans will find their humanity sometime, somehow.

It took me forty years of dealing with buddhism to finally realize that actually Buddha's discovery was happiness and bliss.

If someone gets a bigger house, does that automatically make them happy? Maybe for a second. But then they worry about the bigger house and how to take care of it.

You could then use the dream to learn more about yourself, others, the world, and the nature of life. You can come awake in the matrix and realize you're the one in your own dream. People on the spiritual path can do that, thus they can avoid wasting the whole night, and use it in a developmental, nice way.

That love, in the sense of wishing their happiness, will cause your actions to be effective in relation to that person.