Ah, Catylast, can it be that you do not see all the changes you have made? Some by your resignation and acceptance of circumstance, some by your wild struggles. You say that you hate change, but you *are* change. The Fool in Fool's Fate

When both my editors say 'This is really bad, you need to change this,' I ignore that at my peril.

Thinking is not always...comforting. It is always good, but not always comforting. Royal Assassin

Do you do this because you live such short lives? Tell yourselves wild tales of what might happen tomorrow, and feel all the feelings of events that will never happen? Perhaps to make up for the pasts you cannot recall, you invent futures that will not exist.

No. This is right. I feel it. I am the Catalyst, and I came to change all things. Prophets become warriors, dragons hunt as wolves. Fitz in Assassin's Quest

When considering a man's motives, remember you must not measure his wheat with your bushel. He may not be using the same standard at all.

Perhaps having the courage to find a better path is having the courage to risk making new mistakes.