We can't destroy the inequities between men and women until we destroy marriage.

My white skin disgusts me. My passport disgusts me. They are the marks of an insufferable privilege bought at the price of others' agony. If I could peel myself inside out I would be glad. If I could become part of the oppressed I would be free.

... a phallocentric culture is more likely to begin its censorship purges with books on pelvic self-examination for women or bookscontaining lyrical paeans to lesbianism than with See Him Tear and Kill Her or similar Mickey-Spillanesque titles.

When solutions are offered us by the people who originally brought us the problem, we do well to be suspicious.

Your life is the one place you have to spend yourself fully - wild - generous, drastic in an unrationed profligacy of self.

We are the women men warned us about.

We can't destroy the inequities between men and women until we destroy marriage.