Legitimate revolution must be led by, made by those who have been most oppressed: black, brown, yellow, red, and white women-with men relating to that the best they can.

We are the women men warned us about.

Knowledge is power. Information is power. The secreting or hoarding of knowledge or information may be an act of tyranny camouflaged as humility.

Oppression is something that one group of people commits against another group specifically because of a threatening characteristic shared by the latter group.

... life is a comedy far darker than drama. It just takes time to learn what to smile at.

Hate generalizes; love specifies. Or: The movements of hatred are toward generalization; love's movements are toward specification.

guilt politics ... I regard as conveniently paralyzing, ripe for backlash defensiveness, counterproductive, and boring.