Tenderness emerges from the fact that the two persons, longing, as all individuals do, to overcome the separateness and isolation to which we are all heir because we are individuals, can participate in a relationship that, for the moment, is not of two isolated selves but a union
Rollo MayEveryone has a need for significance; and if we can't make that possible, or even probable, in our society, then it will be obtained in destructive ways.
Rollo May