People do terrible things all the time, but we donโt regularly disown our humanity. We disavow the terrible things.
Roxane GayI write for myself, first and foremost and I also write for people, mostly women, who just want to be seen and heard and all too often aren't.
Roxane GayI don't read the comments anymore, unless they are moderated. Which is not to say censored, but I don't need to read someone saying, "You're ugly."
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