Man does not see reality as it is, but only as he perceives it, and his perception may be mistaken or biased.
Rudolf DreikursWhen a child makes a mistake or fails to accomplish a certain goal, we must avoid any word or action which indicates that we consider him a failure. 'Too bad that didn't work.' 'I'm sorry it didn't work out for you.' We need to separate the deed from the doer.
Rudolf DreikursThe complaints which anyone voices against his mate indicate exactly the qualities which stimulated attraction before marriage.
Rudolf Dreikurs