When a child makes a mistake or fails to accomplish a certain goal, we must avoid any word or action which indicates that we consider him a failure. 'Too bad that didn't work.' 'I'm sorry it didn't work out for you.' We need to separate the deed from the doer.
Rudolf DreikursA great many people fall in love with or feel attracted to a person who offers the least possibility of a harmonious union.
Rudolf DreikursMan does not see reality as it is, but only as he perceives it, and his perception may be mistaken or biased.
Rudolf Dreikurs