Being desirable means being comfortable with your own ambiguity. The most ambiguous reality is that we are flesh and spirit at the same time. Within everyone there is light and shadow, good and evil, love and hate. In order to be truthful, you must embrace your total being. A person who exhibits both positive and negative qualities, strengths and weaknesses is not flawed, but complete.
RumiI said, “I just want to know you and then disappear.” She said, “Knowing me does not mean dying.
RumiJourneys bring power and love back into you. If you can't go somewhere, move in the passageways of the self. They are like shafts of light, always changing, and you change when you explore them.
RumiPale sunlight, pale the wall. Love moves away. The light changes I need more grace than I thought.
Rumi