It's up to the man to not be offended when she tells him what she needs. He shouldn't say, "I know that!" And he shouldn't say, "The woman that I had before you had ten orgasms without her telling me anything!"
Ruth WestheimerTalking from morning to night about sex has helped my skiing, because I talk about movement, about looking good, about taking risks.
Ruth WestheimerYou can either give in to negative feelings or fight them, and I'm of the belief that you should fight them.
Ruth Westheimer