When I ask people to contemplate selflessness, the sometimes react as if I've asked them to put their house on the market or give away all their money. If there was a self that existed in the way we think, discovering selflessness would be like putting our house on the market. But in the Buddhist tradition, the discovery of selflessness is called "completely joyful." It's not called "the raw end of the deal," or "I'd rather go back to bed," or "This is scary and depressing."
Sakyong MiphamAfter you run, there's a sense of accomplishment; you feel like your life is meaningful. It's a moment of clarity.
Sakyong MiphamInitially, you have to live a period where you are developing your attitude. I would consider that a meditation: determining what you want to do. You have a period where you meditate and you get the strength.
Sakyong MiphamYour life and your practice should not be separate. You bring your practice into experience. You bring it about.
Sakyong Mipham