To watch how lovingly your children parent their own children is to know profound achievement.
Sally FieldWhen I was born, the doctor looked at my mother and said, "Congratulations, you have an actor!"
Sally FieldI grew up in a show-business family, but we were working-class show business. There was nothing glamorous about it. You had great things one day and the next day, nothing.
Sally FieldI've had such an odd career. I always wanted to be a great actor. I wanted to be Katharine Hepburn - ish - there was a bit of nobility about her. Instead I've always felt like the mutt standing on the sidelines, panting and saying, "Me, too! How about me?" That's just part of my personality.
Sally FieldIt took me getting to my 50s before I could say "Whatever!" about other people's criticism, especially when it's not true.
Sally FieldI wouldnt mind having my heart broken because it would mean that I had that much feeling connected to somebody. And that would be really great.
Sally FieldThere's always been a shortage of roles for three-dimensional women, no matter what age. If you look at the statistics on women in film, be they behind the camera or in front of the camera, and it's pretty nauseous-making. It always has been.
Sally FieldWe just fight our way through it. But you can't just get up and walk out without repeating the behavior over and over.
Sally FieldI started to repeat to myself "If I'm not where I want to be, it's because I'm not good enough... yet." Which meant it was up to me.
Sally FieldI so believe that older women have tremendous value to their families, their community, their country, the world.
Sally FieldIn reality, people are people. Age does a weird thing to your body on the outside. It makes your face fall and weird things happen all over. But inside, you're the same person you always were.
Sally FieldI was just lucky enough to grow up in a time when they actually had drama departments in schools.
Sally FieldThere are parts of me that I feel are beautiful, but they don't have anything to do with my nose.
Sally FieldMy last son is leaving to go to college; my grandchildren are being born. My mother is living with me.
Sally FieldI find thatโs one of the great things about acting-you have the opportunity to stand in somebody elseโs shoes. Each character faces a dilemma in her life, and as an actor youโre able to step into that characterโs skin, look through her eyes. You leave transformed, a different person, because once you live a little bit of someoneโs life, it changes you.
Sally FieldThere was really a snobbery from people in film - they did not want people who had come from television. It was the poor relation of show business, and especially situation comedy.
Sally FieldWestern Costume, and the old Universal wardrobe that is huge and they're getting rid of so much of it now, which is sad.
Sally FieldWhen you're old, you are more certain of who you are, and that may be a good thing or a bad thing.
Sally FieldBut there isn't any second half of myself waiting to plug in and make me whole. It's there. I'm already whole.
Sally FieldI don't want to look old and worn, but what can you do? My real focus is being an actor. I care more about having the opportunity to play roles that I haven't played than I care if my neck looks like someone's bedroom curtains.
Sally FieldLike a jerk, I went to a nutritionist and I ate the most repulsive, awful things. I didn't allow myself to eat chocolate cake and french fries and cheeseburgers.
Sally FieldI was raised to sense what someone wanted me to be and be that kind of person. It took me a long time not to judge myself through someone else's eyes.
Sally FieldThere were the days when women were under contract, and they were thought of as a commodity, so they hired the best writers and a lot of them were women at the time. This was in the thirties and forties, to make product for the people who were under contract, who were their assets to the studios. But that doesn't exist anymore - and as a result, the people who are in the industry write products that interest them.
Sally FieldWhen you have kept yourself isolated, no one relates to you, you have no way of understanding actually who you are.
Sally FieldI don't know what happiness is. I have periods of feeling joyous and peaceful and excited about what I'm doing, but I am also frequently very sad.
Sally FieldThe roles... the deep roles that I've gotten to play have turned my course. They've changed my life experience.
Sally FieldIf you have the opportunity to play these characters that are three-dimensional and very deeply rooted in an emotional level, they stay with you. They lived in you anyway, the density of them. It takes a while to realize how they've influenced you.
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