I think the bait for doing something really is always the part.
If you're not moving forward, you're falling back.
I'm too old to be governed by fear of dumb people.
The bad guys dont always get punished and the good guys are not necessarily pure.
I literally was saved by a role, from becoming a cab driver. I never did have to wait tables, though, so looking back I guess I had it pretty soft.
Separation is painful, and there's such a thing as doing it too much - the limits are how much it hurts.