You find in some a sort of graceless modesty, that makes them ashamed to requite an obligation.
Seneca the YoungerMany shed tears merely for show, and have dry eyes when no one's around to observe them.
Seneca the YoungerWe are born to lose and to perish, to hope and to fear, to vex ourselves and others; and there is no antidote against a common calamity but virtue; for the foundation of true joy is in the conscience.
Seneca the Younger