I was very soft. I gained a lot of weight with my second child and was very on the couch. And [my manager] said, "You know, this is a softer role [in Misteress]. She is a softer character. She's a lesbian that's always the passive half of the relationship."

I was more wishy-washy in the first 12 years of my career, just because that was my personality.

I'm a film doll. But I'm enjoying it. So I'm gonna keep doing it.

I was always interested in doing it, but I was so content with my life that I didn't really go after it.

I don't want to speak for all people who don't have children, but maybe there's a discomfort with kids and the amount of attention they demand, by just being the age that they are.

But I'm trying not to be cynical - I don't want to be one of those people who has a cool opportunity and blows it. It's really amazing what's happening to me.

Someone pays me a hundred bucks every Tuesday to DJ. I don't think I'll ever give that up.