He may only get to keep that which he is willing to let go of.

The adult May fly lives only a few hours, just long enough to mate. He has neither mouth nor stomach, but needs neither since he does not live long enough to need to eat. The eggs the May fly leaves hatch after the parent has died. What is it all about. What's the point? There is no point. That's just the way it is. It is neither good nor bad. Life is mainly simply inevitable. (41)

One can choose life, or choose death. Having chosen life, I must live it as it is.

I've never began any important venture for which I felt adequate prepared

Anarchy could never get a man to the moon, but it may the only mode that can allow us to survive on earth.

And so, it is not astonishing that, though the patient enters therapy insisting that he wants to change, more often than not, what he really wants is to remain the same and to get the therapist to make him feel better. (4)

You are free to do whatever you like. You need only face the consequences.