A little bit of irreverence is necessary to have any self-esteem at all. Not irreverence for people, but rather, for what other people think.
If a man isn't being nice when you're out, all you have to do is remain polite and then go home early.
Don't believe what anyone tells you about yourself.
Until he gives you a reason not to trust him, behave as though you trust him.
When you are happy, you are sexy
In romance, there's nothing more attractive to a man than a woman who has dignity and pride in who she is.