I'm not much of a partier anymore. I enjoy clarity much more.

So what if right now everything is wrong?

Then when I cut my hair short, my career tanked for about four years!

The video forum for me has been a source of great consternation because once you start projecting a look to a song, it robs the listener of their ability to adopt that song and make the lyric their own.

I have a philosophy that everything you write doesn't have to be good for everybody. There are going to be people that get irritated by some of the things I write-including my parents. And then there are going to be people that you draw in because of the pointedness of certain things.

Let's face it, life is a constant challenge. It's full of unexpected detours that no one but you can navigate.

I pride myself on finding balance. I love making music and I love raising my boys - I find time to make both a priority.