One arrives at a recognition that one needs to be distracted.
"Time" does not mean "occasion."
I had a couple of Asian readers and other folks tell me, "Oh, you have a lot of sex in your writing."
In the same way, the people whom I most abhor, I abhor them for elements that I abhor in myself.
I'm in my 60s, and a cancer scare just makes you more aware of mortality.
I always wanted to be pretty as a girl, although I believed it was not possible.